Jane has been my best bosom friend since we were in the kindergarten. I’ll never leave our friendship behind as she gave me the most beautiful memory of childhood and as she was the only one who always accompanied me and never ever gave up our friendship.
The days without Jane were just like the world without sunshine for me at that time. She really helped me a lot, especially during my childhood. I used to be such a grossly shy girl that I was even afraid of talking with people around me, let alone strangers. It was Jane who changed me. As Jane was truly extroverted and easy-going, she had many friends. So, she often brought some new friends to me as she knew me so much. And when we communicated or played together, she would tell me how to build up good friendship with others. Day by day, changes happened to me. I became willing to start a conversation with others, played with different kids, and I really enjoyed it. As unselfish as Jane was, she never hid anything from me, and always told me what she knew. Then I learned that if you want others to open their hearts to you, you should first leave your heart and mind open. In those days with Jane, I learned much from her and I was gradually becoming more and more easy-going and extroverted. Thanks to Jane, I had a wonderful and unforgettable childhood, which truly meant much to me. That’s one reason that I could never throw away our friendship.
Later, I moved to Shanghai with my family. On my eleventh birthday, I said goodbye to Jane with tears. I felt very sad leaving Jane. My mother said I would meet many more new friends, and with the passage of time, I would not feel that sad as the distance worked indeed. But it did not happen that way. Jane and I sent emails to each other every day so that we nearly became each other’s secret diaries, and it gradually developed itself into a habit for us. The thing was everything could be our topic, which pushed us to think, talk and write more and we were all improved by it. When I met something unpleasant, I would tell her, and then I would be given the warmest comfort that could easily cheer me up. Though we were separated, we kept in touch, and gradually, a kind of invisible attachment formed between us, which was a special tie that cannot just be cut by time and distance.
The friendship of Jane and me is old indeed as it started early, but it’s strong and tight as it has lasted long under our careful cultivation. People usually say that things are easily forgotten with time flying, and ties attached to people tend to be broken up by distance. However, it has never ever happened to Jane and me, and I believe it won’t, either. When something new shows up, something old dies away, that’s life. But the friendship of Jane and me seems to be always brand-new under the test of time and distance. She is my Jane forever.